1. Encourage a lot of foreplay. Sometimes all women need to get in the mood is a few more minutes of ear nibbling or nipple stimulation. There are erotic zones all over the body and if they are touched in the right way, they can do the trick to get a libido-challenged woman in the mood.
2. Have oral sex-for you. Clitoral stimulation is the surest way to boost a libido. Even if you don’t think you’re in the mood for sex, having your partner stimulate your clitoris with his mouth will almost always get you wanting more.
3. Masturbate. If you’re feeling iffy before a sexual encounter take some time alone to touch yourself. Massage your breasts and rub your clitoris and vagina, imagining that your partner is there with you. Then when you are with your partner, you’ll have orgasmic memories to fall back on to help pump you up for more.
4. Buy Womera. This is a female sexual enhancement drug which does wonders for women who experience sexual dysfunction and an inability to get sexually aroused. It’ll not only get blood flowing to your genitals (similar to have Viagra works for men), but it’ll also help give you confidence to dive right in to your sexual encounter.
5. Stock up on lube. Women who experience a drop in libido often find that their natural lubricants run dry, which then in turn makes it even harder to get aroused. Stop the cycle by lubing up BEFORE you get frustrated that your body is not lubing up on its own. Have your partner rub it all over your genital area for added stimulation.